I am Christian and pregnant.
You are young single or engaged, and you begin to have nausea, fatigue, a growing appetite; and then you remember that you had unprotected sex not long ago.
Fear appears, you ask yourself questions, doubt arrives and there you say to yourself: "Not me! " . You start to cry, fear gives way to panic, you think of your parents, your friends, the members of the assembly, your entourage, what will they say and think of you? You end up buying a test and there, you realize that it is positive: you are pregnant!
One embryo, one life!
En voyant ce test positif, il y aura tout d'abord, toutes sortes de pensées qui te traverseront l'esprit. Car probablement, tu es encore étudiante, ou tu es une mineure, peut-être même que tu es fiancée. Je ne connais pas ta situation exacte mais pendant un temps d'inattention, tu as fait ce qu'il ne fallait pas et tu t'apprêtes à être une future maman, bien avant tes plans.
Among all the thoughts, there will probably be the one of abortion that will cross you. After all, you can have an abortion, neither seen nor known. But don't forget that our God sees everything. Beyond God, there is your body, your conscience which will remember it. You risk creating a wound in you. When there is an embryo in formation, the soul is already there and God cannot, in any case, be favorable to these things. I assure you, abortion is not the solution, this child can be the future Esther or Deborah of her time, the next Samuel or Moses: a blessing for the people of God.
Tu penses peut-être aussi au suicide, mais ta vie est précieuse aux yeux de Dieu, tout comme celle de ton enfant à naître. Si Dieu t'accorde le souffle de vie, c'est qu'Il désire t'utiliser. Oui oui, Il le désire fermement. Oui tu as fait une erreur certes, mais ce n'est pas pour autant que Dieu ne veut plus de toi. Nous faisons tous des erreurs dans la vie, nous commettons tous les actes que nous n'aurions pas préféré faire. Cependant, nous avançons avec! Pierre a trahi Jésus, et cela ne l'a pas empêché d'être celui que Dieu a utilisé pour que 3000 âmes soient sauvées et encore plus!
When these thoughts come cry out to God and proclaim 2 Corinthians 10:5 (KJV) “We cast down reasonings and every haughtiness that exalts itself against the knowledge of God, and we bring into captivity every thought to the obedience of the Christchurch»
The enemy is playing tricks on you, and that in no way glorifies God. Which now allows me to move on to the second point: forgive yourself.
Forgive yourself!
Indeed, know that for God, in any case, there is no greater or more important sin than another. It is true that men rank sins as they please, but in the eyes of God it is not so. He forgives us of all our errors and faults, provided we sincerely repent and turn away from evil.. 1 John 1: 9 (Martin): "If we confess our sins, He is faithful and just to forgive us our sins, and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness..«
L'étape qui semble parfois la plus difficile, ce n'est pas de croire que Dieu nous a pardonnés, mais c'est celle de nous pardonner à nous-mêmes. Aujourd'hui, sache que tu dois saisir ta liberté, quel que soit ce qu'on t'a dit ou encore ce qu'on te dira, que l'on dira de toi, regarde-toi comme Dieu te regarde… avec amour , comme celui du père du fils prodigue. Car Dieu te voit désormais au travers de Jésus-Christchurch.
So, there are consequences that will be present (you will have new responsibilities, maybe some people will reject you…); but they must be overcome against all odds. And with the help of your God, it is possible. Alleluia! Don't let guilt, shame, depression or discouragement be your lot. But rather say: » Non ! Je refuse cela au Nom de Jésus-Christchurch of Nazareth”.
Philippiens 3: 13-14 (LSG): «Frères, je ne pense pas l'avoir saisi; mais je fais une chose choisie: oubliant ce qui est en arrière et moi portant vers ce qui est en avant, je cours vers le but, pour remporter le prix de la vocation céleste de Dieu en Jésus-Christchurch.
You know, God knows we don't are not perfect. However, He did everything for us to be free. Do not accept being chained in the guilt and accusations of the enemy. Tomorrow, your life will be a living testimony for someone. This situation will be an encouragement to a young girl who you will be able to support when she experiences what you are experiencing. So get up, God has already forgiven you. Now it's your turn to say to yourself: «Je me pardonne et maintenant, j'avance avec Jésus-Christchurch! ".
Nevertheless!
This last point is really to encourage you to take care of your child. He was not included in your program, but he is entitled to all your love, your affection, your joy, your time...
Probably you will continue your studies, and I encourage you to do so. But don't forget, maybe you still really like going out with your friends; from now on, take great care of this child, do not let your parents, nor another person replace you in your role of mother. Be the one your baby needs.
If possible, I invite you to let your child see his father as well, it is very important. The child must not feel that he is not wanted or that he is a burden, a burden. You must fight, because your child is also called to serve Christchurch plus tard. Et il faut donc que tu puisses lui enseigner des valeurs et principes selon la Parole de Dieu.
Je ne suis pas en train de dire qu'il faut te marier avec le père de l'enfant, et je ne dis pas non plus de ne pas le faire. Ceci étant, demande véritablement à Dieu quelle est sa volonté agréable et parfaite, afin que tu aies la conviction de Son plan pour toi. Si Dieu te révèle de ne pas te marier avec le père de ton enfant, ce n'est pas une raison pour empêcher le papa et l'enfant de te voir, te parler ou te côtoyer, car ton bébé a également besoin de son papa .
Finally, know that God often turns evil into good. Ask Him therefore to place the right people on your path, so that you can be well accompanied during this time, certainly particular and full of surprises. Keep in mind the moments of joy, of laughter, of sweetness, of lightness. And above all, become this intimate friend of God, draw near to Him and He will advise you, guide you.
Il faut continuer d'avancer et embrasser la vie que Dieu nous offre à chaque instant. Si aujourd'hui tu lis cet article, et que tu n'es pas dans cette situation, mais tu connais une jeune chrétienne maman ou future maman en dehors marriage, I invite you not to blame her, nor judge her and even less make her feel guilty. But simply to be an attentive ear, a shoulder on which she can cry, tell stories or share his situation.
Proverbs 17:17 (KJV) “A friend always loves, and in misfortune he proves himself a brother. »
Author Flora Vertueux
